I know there is grapefruit in the top notes of Terre d'Hermes, but I can't smell it at all. All I smell is a mineral note and cedar. I was surprised to learn recently that it had grapefruit in it. In the edp version I can detect the sweet orange at the beginning most distinctly. I'm wondering if my eau de toilette is old or deteriorating. Can everyone else detect the grapefruit note or is my nose a bit off. Or is that top notes so fleeting that I miss them all together.