Welcome to BN, wheelspinner! It is always heart-warming to see hundreds of people joining BN for the holidays, with the sole purpose of finding one'n'only fragrance for their SOs.
Here is what you do:
1) Please do not give her the whole bottle bought blind, i.e. without HER sniffing the fragrance first.
2) Give her a carefully selected arrangement of samples/decants prettily packaged in a bowl/basket/box so that you could have fun together with HER final word resulting in a FB purchase. Or, rather, if you are in a big city, take her out to the stores and spend 4-5 hours sniffing with her at the fragrance counters, grab some samples to further sniff at home, and once again, listen to what she is saying.
3) The suggestions (but not limited to!) will be:
-- Romea d'Ameour The Secret Heroines of the Tsar;
-- Hermes Un Jardin Sur le Toit;
-- Annick Goutal Ninfeo Mio;
-- Histoires de Parfums Vert Pivoine;
-- Les Parfums de Rosine Rose Legere;
-- L'Artisan Parfumeur Mimosa pour Moi;
-- Christian Dior Diorissimo;
-- YSL Baby Doll or 2-3 Paris flankers;
-- Alfred Sung Jewel;
-- Ellen Tracy by Ellen Tracy.
Please let us know.