so common ladies! Join the party!
Another thing that comes to mind is that BN goes pretty "deep" into fragrance, can get a bit "technical" whereas most women I know (and on these forums I talked about) tend to explainn frags like "oh that smells feminine, that smells fresh" etc etc and don't go into much detail. Most of my girl friends will say for example, "oh this smells sooo nice" but if you ask what is it that she likes about the frag and what notes does she find most appealing you'll get something like "I don't know, it's nice, smells sweet" and that's it. So maybe BN can be a bit intimidating at first. I just recently joined and I remember that I thought "oh my, I will never be able to detect notes like that" but it's funny how fast you learn and soon you smell notes in a frag that you would never notice before. So one big plus for BN - you really learn a lot if you care enough to join and just communicate.